Your standards and lifestyle are not a benchmark for everyone else to measure their own lives by. Goes both ways, right?.
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Just speaking up a bit isn't what you need though, you need to find a friend or two (if you don't have them, go find some!) to help you work on being more outgoing and comfortable speaking up and to others. For me, taking a theatre class for two years helped me amazingly well. If you wanted to, you could sign up to help out for your next local theatre's show or something along those lines if you want to work on your loudness and confidence. If not, have the friends take you out and coach you on how to speak to girls, how to bring attention to yourself without being the loud guy in the room..
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The significant other-best friend relationship is often perilous. There can be some unspoken jealousy between the two as they vie for your attention. Subconsciously, she could feel threatened by you developing a love interest. She had to realize what she was saying to him was not beneficial to you whatsoever. I am not saying ditch the friend completely, but she definitely needs to be removed as a confidant for you. Trust and confidence has to be earned. I would make sure that if you feel the need to have another, that you chose someone who will have your best interests in mind and not be threatened by any developing relationship..
They don't look too tall, and they're very slim… I'd say… 90 pounds-ish?.
The fact that she TELLS you that that it was only a kiss and she didn't kiss back, means nothing. A reasonable people don't believe liars. I've heard thousands of stories such as this, (when the female said it was only one sided kiss and she didn't kiss back) and i don't remember even one of them ended up with just that. Most of them (90%) became to "We just made out only for few minutes", leading to "he just fingered me", or "it was only oral", and the other 10% turned out to be full sex or an on going affair..
So a couple days later I asked my boyfriend "Tell me about you and Kathy" and he said there was nothing to tell. They hung out, and he didn't deny there was flirting. But nothing happened. And I had nothing to worry about..
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