It's not an offense request. But I think it is a weird request to ask of someone I was just casually seeing to "see if it was going somewhere" It's not a quick process to my understanding and it's kind of pointless especially if you are not exclusive(I'm not seeing others[for now] doesn't count]. He can test negative and then go out with another girl next week and catch some thing. If you guys get exclusive I can see you both getting tested together or something. But I understand his reluctance, I guess....
It's about warding off the f-boys who are in their lane, getting in the way and wasting their time. The men who understand this understand and aren't put off by it. The guys who don't, complain..
Then i come up with excuses. Well, I've been with my girlfriend for so long, maybe we should take a break and test the waters... What if we end up unhappy because if we stay together its all we will ever know?.
Would you be best friends with someone who didn't share your values and sense of humor? Of course not. So I agree; maybe you could take a second look at your bf as well..
A couple of days ago I received a message from an unknown number from a guy claiming that my bf and his gf had met up and had sex. He sent me all their emails from each other talking graphically about having sex with each other and how it was a pity that they were both in a relationship but wanted to meet each other. This woman was involved with my bf years ago and I had asked him to stop contact with her. He did but apparently he just created a fake email account to message her. He was away for work to another city when they planned to meet up. Reading from the messages he was asking her to stay the night with him in the hotel room and how they had such a 'special connection' with each other. It sickens me because he was messaging me saying "good night I love you" but he was actually with her. How can he be so detached?.
I for one am surpised that other people are cosigning your behavior. If you're not married and occupying the same domicile, breaking someone's door in--screen door or not--and punching them in the face is a CRIME. It doeswn't matter what one tells oneself. If the cops come, you go to jail. Period. Busting in and carrying on does not undo what you've seen. So you found out he's doing someone else. That happens--to women and to men. That's no license to break, enter and assault. I'm confounded that others are quibbling about his story. He doesn't owe one. The door was locked for a reason. Sorry to not cosign your somewhat understandible but thoroughly wrong violent intrusion. He could have shot you and been justified..
I believe that it is the actually the other way round: the society keeps telling us that it is alright for men to do certain things but not for women. In the western world (and from what I read it is not much different in some other parts of the world), woman’s sexuality had been seriously suppressed for centuries! No wonder we are not so in touch with our primal desires.
WOW, righty is gorgeous :).
Have fun dating. It takes time to meet a good match. You seem to need a strong physical man who is active, playful, confident, and smart. He's out there..
Not if a woman keeps in shape, take a look at any of the 25 to 30 year (or even 30 to 40) olympians..
Also, a question for guys - would you be disappointed if a woman came to a date with short hair, while her hair is super long in her profile photos?.
I called him on it later and he said I put my feelers out there to get stepped on. I said don't lie on this. This is like when somebody starts to say something you don't want repeated and you give them "the look" or butt in because they shouldn't say anything..
Such a cutie, and a perfect view at that!.
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