As for if other guys are nervous in your situation -- yeah I would feel the same way, but I'm a 35yo guy who has never been on an official date. The fact that I would feel the same way isn't a good thing for you LOL. I think you better "up your game" if you want to succeed with this girl. I hate telling anyone to act piggish or manipulative like the dating guides suggest. My advice is obviously all theoretical (which is still OK since I'm a genius) but I would just say, try not to be nervous and try not to hinge your entire happiness on the success of one date. Because you will be crushed if it doesn't work out, because most first dates probably don't work out, AND because it will cause you to behave in such a way that the date probably won't work out. So, be like me in just the single following sense: stop caring so much. It's just a date and 1 person in the world. Be yourself, don't worry about it. I can't really apply that advice to myself yet but I am confident in giving it..
Background: All of my girlfriends and cousins are either engaged, married and/or just had babies. I'm 30 and all I've wanted my whole life is to get married. Kids would be the icing on the cake, I just always knew I wanted a husband. I had two long term failed relationships that I ended and have struggled since then to find anything long term, because I just wasn't in the right mindset. I used to think that it was a generational thing for men to want their wives to stay home and have kids and that it was obsolete and old fashioned. I look around me and every woman I know has a husband who provides that to her. And these women all have good careers and educations, like I do, and they seem to have the best of both worlds because they have that choice! I used to think they got 'lucky' but I realized that what actually happened is they set out to get it and wouldn't settle for less! That was the turning point for me. I know I can't compare, and many of them envy my freedom and think of me as so 'Sex and the City' glamorous and independent going on dates all the time (which is so not true), so I know the grass isn't always greener Not saying that's all I'm after, but I'd sure like to have that choice!!.
but there's no right or wrong when it comes to it bothering you or not. if it does, you'll have to break up and look for somebody less flirtatious w/ potplants if it doesn't bother you too much, stick with it. one other thing you can do is flirt with others in front of him more, see how he likes it..
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One Saturday when I was out with my friends a week or two ago. He started texting and we were texting most the night..
In the future, just give vague answers and say "I don't dwell on the past" and reassure a man you think you might love that no one was important to you as him. But don't do it on this guy because he's not worth it. Save it for one who is more mature and reasonable..
But putting all that aside, this man is bringing you down and that is why you need to bin him for your own sanity..
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