I have not yet arranged another date with her since the end of the last date as I know she is busy until next week, however she did mention during the last date it would good if she could come round and cook me dinner as I cooked her dinner last time she was over. I am planning to call her up tomorrow evening to arrange something..
We are both in our 30's and single parents with demanding jobs and unusual personal issues. Ideally, we'd both like to just get together a couple times a week and keep things light and fun, as there are circumstances in our lives that make giving a lot emotionally to another person very difficult - at least for now..
I think it stems to having a complex about how I look? I do exercise outside the house but find myself looking into a mirror for 10 minutes before I go to make sure I look my hair looks ok which is ridiculous because I am just about to go and get all sweaty and look awful despite any effort I put in. People in the past have even gone as far as to say I am good looking but this just makes me embarrassed as I feel they are only saying this out of pity. Even so, not everyone looks like Brad Pitt so why should I be so worried?.
Let's reverse your question. If you truly love someone, and they will be unhappy if you cheat, then shouldn't you avoid cheating?.