I enjoy being near the water..
But more importantly, I have found every person that has been flakey to have emotional issues. They cannot even commit to days/times to see someone as that simple act is too much commitment/overwhelming for them (they usually have an avoidant attachment style). Just food for thought..
looks like a young apnea fan.
Have you ever been in any sort of counseling to help with some of the challenges of your HFA?.
Sure a vacation is nice, but make sure you dont have anything else that this money could more well spent on first. ok?.
I keep getting drawn back to this one. I think it's the hair that tops it all off..
Just be honest with her - because if you're pretending to be fine with all this and just building up resentment - then whatever probs you guys end up having - would be as much your fault as they are hers - simply because you didn't express what you needed and wanted from the R..
possibly the most beautiful face ive seen on here.
1. Explore your feelings about nudity. Maybe find a middle ground where she can express her nudist self and you can explore the nudist in you? Exploring may also entail I've thought about it and nudity is for my eyes only and that's OK too. My point being maybe she is a call to explore something or maybe just a reiteration of what you need in a relationship. Either way is good..
IF you're good to go with keeping the physical relationship with him, and the potential of him choosing to date and/or possibly sleep with other people, then I suppose staying in this "as is" would be fine.. but if you're not all about it and need/want to know the 2 of you are in the relationship EXCLUSIVELY then IMO I would let him know you're not okay with being a FWB kind of deal, nor are you good with the potential of having a sexual relationship with someone other than you..
Very nice cleavage.
but Sophie is different.. she is the one that you looking to spend the night with. she looking for good time like you do so imagine what you will get..
I am fun, active, like to mingle, socialize, camp, fish, shoot pool and hang ou..
I'm from Detroit but I'm currently in the U.P going to school & playin ball. U wanna know more just ask ;..
Anything repressed tends to break out..
3. WHY AM I STILL ASKING MYSELF IF DIVORCE IS THE RIGHT THING EVEN AFTER ALL OF THIS? i FAILED TO MENTION MUCH OF THE PAIN SHE CAUSED INCLUDING EXTREME MENTAL CRUELTY AND PHYSICAL ABUSE..
I guess it's possible that she pushed you out of her life because she got scared about settling down again. Do you know the details surrounding her past relationship/marriage? Does she have problems, that you've picked up on, with commitment?.
If you're aware of the problem, why haven't you joined a gym?.
When we met it was surprisingly natural and relaxing, -- That is a good start for sure. I've said before on these boards that there are couples who say that the honeymoon never ended and that's because they were both being themselves, relaxed and open from the very start. Don't let these feelings "blind" you though. Keep your objectivity and common sense..
Is this a huge red flag that she is not ready for the commitment (or for us in general)? I love her, but I don't want to live/be with someone that isn't sure if they want to live with me...especially when I've invested 8 years in that person..