4. Sometimes there are other reasons. If the 'not talking about the future' is paired with distant, cold or dismissive behavior - or he gets angry and defensive about 'committing' then that isn't the stuff that honest soul searching is made of. That is more of an exit strategy..
The adorable snowbait is back! :).
twosome sitting on a boat shiny bikini pink ponytail marina.
Originally Posted by Zed.
6 pack and so young.
Today, she has told me that we need to talk on Friday about whether or not she wants to continue this relationship. She voiced that she needs to prioritize her child and is uncertain of what type of future that we have as a family. I love her with all of my heart and I am willing to make compromises to do so. I suggested that we pick a day that all 3 of us can spend quality time together every week. I also suggested that she bring him overnight once a week, but, because of her hectic scheduling she is always exhausted by 8 and that would be an inconvenience(as she would have to get up at 6am and leave anyway). She wants someone who can be part of the family and I think she would prefer someone who is more financially capable of supporting so she would be relieved of many financial stresses that she faces and I don't have that capability at this moment, although I am working on it. I need some unbiased perspectives on this situation because I strongly think that we can work this out and she is having doubts that are mainly financial-based. She claims that if we lived together she would be happy. I'm not sure if she is willing to wait an unknown amount of time for this to happen? Any advice/help would be appreciated..
Anyway, interesting stuff.....
New to thi..
YES itbs and a nice gap.
i know nobody is perfect, but until where should we push the boundaries of tolerating?.
Like Emilia said, I think he's just learned how to wrap women around his finger. He can't be an outright jerk, so he has to be kind of nice, right? Otherwise, you'd see him for what he is and bail..
This is funny, last guy I've been (he was NOT into me, but I loved him so much) set a date and never confirmed. I texted him one hour prior and he tried to cancel, because supposedly he was busy. I said to him, no way I'm picking you up anyway! So I went to his home. I was THAT crazy! We finally went dinner, but I don't recommend acting like this. It's a no no. If the guys not interested, why force situations? He'll break with us anyway at the end. Cruel truth.
Looking through the 643 comments on this pic, i found why the crap is getting through. Kind of like an in your face thing. Well played, DU, well played!.